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What a terrifying experience. I am so impressed that you were able to get back behind the wheel and reclaim your freedom. You are amazing. 😊

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Thank you :) and nothing like exposure therapy! xo

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Doggedly determined 😉

Oh how I wish i could drink a cup of your fortitude and resilience. Triumph !

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No need to -- it's already within you. To be human is to be resilient in all the ways. xo

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Thanks for sharing your journey Kate. What a reward to see the hard work you and Tug have put in!

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Thank you for being here with us! Truly!

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Thank you for this "Freedom does indeed lie in the work we avoid" at the end of the school year, learning to process students graduating has always been... rough for me, thank you for this reminder to face it and to feel it

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and thank you for reading my words and doing the work you do. I cannot imagine how difficult it is to be a teacher -- to pour your soul into your work and students only to watch them leave. I hope you know how truly impactful your work is. I still consider my teachers the greatest influence on my life. Where do you teach and what age/degree? xo

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I’m so proud of you and Tuggie! What an adventure! 🙌

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Thank you!! And Tuggie says thank you too! xo

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I just read this the night before doing a scary thing myself and it’s exactly what I needed.

I’ll be repeating your words to myself while finding freedom. Thank you for sharing

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YOU'VE GOT THIS!!!!! Let us know how it goes! Sending love and snugs! xo

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Way to go Kate & Tug! From getting back behind the wheel to Tugs first flight, Luna and I are super proud of you both. Freedom lies in the work you avoid - this may become my new mantra...

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So grateful for you and Luna!!! sending so much love! xo

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Wishing there was an option in the poll for “I will read anything you write whenever you send it”. Truly a joy and honor to read.

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This. thank you so much, Nicole!

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I enjoy your thoughts and words Always!!! You are Enough Kate!! ❤️💜

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Thank you, Janet!! xo

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I'm so happy you're ok from your accident! Good for you for your time away with Miss Tug. You enjoyed it and it was a success! LOVE that notion of "freedom lies in what we're avoiding" such a nudger. Happy Weekend 💛

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I didn't do the poll because I can/will read your stuff any day!

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and thank you!!!

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Happy weekend to you too!

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So proud of you and your perseverance! Thanks as always for sharing your incredible journey.

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Thank you for being here! xo

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I became afraid to drive on the interstate at one point in my life. I’m not sure why other than I had not been the driver on most trips for several years. Once my daughter was off to college I knew I had to conquer this anxiety. I started with a four mile stretch and gradually extended it. Thanks to my yoga teacher I learned my lightheadedness was basically because I wasn’t breathing. The first two hour trip I drove behind a semi in the right lane. I told myself I could always pull over and call the state troopers. I feared passing out at the wheel. Whenever I could I took my dog. I’m glad I made myself do this because a couple of years later my mom needed my help and she was four hours away. She had Alzheimer’s. I made so many trips I wore out a set of tires. My experience was not as frightening as yours and you should be so proud for overcoming your fear. The word “freedom” is exactly what I felt too. I can’t wait to one day read your memoir!

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Thank you so much for sharing this with me and I am so proud of you for taking it on. I feel that this is not talked about enough and I'm so grateful to have you with me. I am also so sorry to hear about your Mom. Alzeihmer's is cruel and I so hope you know how incredible it is that you showed up for her in that way. Sending so so much love and wishing you a day! xo

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You are so kind. You have a great day too. Hugs to Tuggie and Waffle.

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So proud of you for taking that first step forward. So glad you were able to have a great trip with your friends. You deserve it! 💜💜

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Thank you, amy!!! Wishing you a weekend! xo

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As usual, you’re words are incredibly inspiring and give me hope.

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Thank you, Tracie!! xoxo

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Well done to you for facing that fear! I love how proud of herself Tuggie looks in her picture. She is such a good girl.

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She is so proud and it is the absolute bestttttt. I am so proud of how far she has come. xo

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I haven’t driven in 2 years due to severe anxiety and your story makes me want to pursue exposure therapy as my therapist has been suggesting. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for the hope.

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This note means so much to me. All I have ever wanted is to empower others to go after the freedom that is rightfully theirs. I believe in you wholeheartedly and don't hesitate to reach out if ever a solidarity cyber tea party could be of help/support. big hugs and snugs! xo

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You are so incredibly kind! A cyber tea party sounds super fun <3 freedom is what I’ve been lacking due to my anxiety and I really appreciate your believing in me.

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